Just a quick update, we are now on Google Plus. We’re still kind of figuring out how best to use it, since both Caroline and I have accounts, we’re not sure if we should have people follow us both, and post updates through both, or if that would just be cluttered and annoying for our readers.
So, for the time being, we’ve decided to just have all the Road to Epic updates be sent out through my account, which you can find here: Adam Wik on Google Plus.
You can follow me on there for all the Road to Epic updates, as well as some extra goodies from time to time.
We just wanted to have a quick post today to wish everyone a happy 4th of July. Whether or not you’re from the United States, or whether or not you’re fond of the United States even, today is a day to celebrate freedom – something I think everyone is in favor of.
In the end, everything we’re working toward on Road to Epic has to do with freedom; the freedom to live our lives how we want, the freedom to follow our dreams and not have to conform to what society insists is best for us. So today, whether you’re an American citizen or not, take some time to think about your own freedoms. It might be freedom from debt you’re looking for, or maybe you’re ready to declare your independence from your soul-crushing dead end job – in the end it’s all founded on the same principle, we all have the right to live how we choose to live.
On a quick side note, the posting schedule may be a little irregular in the next few weeks due to some family holiday obligations, although we’ll do our best to post from the road. We’ve got several big Road to Epic projects we’re working on as well, but we’re not to going to let it interfere with our posting schedule if we can help. Keep watching for more updates on what we’ve got planned.
In the meantime, take some time to relax, have fun with your family and friends, and think a little about the ways you can make your life a little more independent.
Happy 4th of July everyone!
What’s keeping you from pursuing your goals or dreams?
It’s a simple question that easily sparks the most knee-jerk angry replies. A lot of people try to reason it away with things like:
“Let’s be realistic, there’s no way I’ll ever do X”
“I can’t do X because I’ve not got the time or money – who does?!”
For lots of people, that is the reality they have created within their heads. They’ve conditioned themselves to an unsatisfactory life, one that will inevitably lead to either the deferment of happiness or worse, unhappiness for their entire lives.
Some people do have honest, good reasons as to why they cannot do whatever it is they want to be doing, whether it be losing weight, travel, or living debt free. However, I’m going to go out on a limb and say that the number of people who have real reasons, and not just excuses, as to why they cannot pursue their goals/dreams is probably in the 1-5% of society range.
For many, it’s that they honestly have a lot of self-imposed (or society-imposed) limits and beliefs on how life should be lived.
The cold, hard truth of reality is something we’re conditioned to as citizens starting in childhood. Say, you want to explore the hidden catacombs underneath Paris or something else. You’ll soon be corrected, with “Cut it out. Be realistic and get some safe 9-to-5 and make a decent living.”
At any point in life, if you dare to stray outside the societal norms and do your own thing, people will try to be the “reasonable voice” in your life and keep you from achieving the things you want to do in your life. Dare to be unreasonable.
It’s now the 20th, which means that yesterday marked exactly 6 months from the day we set out on our fluent in 6 months challenge. So how did it work out? Um, did you notice the title…. Success!
So, let’s run through the criteria we set in the original challenge and see how we’ve managed.
- Production – At this point, we’ve been able to have several conversations with native speakers, both verbally and written, in-person and over the computer. This, in my opinion, is the biggest triumph. We’ve chatted about a fairly wide range of topics, from food to politics to lots in-between and our longest conversation so far lasted for about an hour.
Every living thing on Earth is really, really lazy – and you and I are no exception. There’s a good reason for it too, food and water can be hard to come by for species without supermarkets. Even we had to be concerned about finding enough food before about 10,000 years ago. Several billions of years of punishing any and all inefficiency shaped pretty much all life into remarkably efficient things and have hardcoded one basic tenet into all organisms – take the path of least resistance.
When you have limited amounts of energy to expend it just makes sense. If you burn up more energy to catch dinner than you take in by eating it, you’re just not going to last very long. Taking the path of least resistance meant using the least amount of energy necessary to achieve your goals. In the past, that meant effiency. Efficiency meant survival. Everything worked great.
My philosophy in life has always been one of optimism. The bedrock of this optimism is largely a well-developed sense of appreciation of everything I have. I understand that life is fleeting and that I am beyond fortunate not only to live in a developed, first-world nation where something like access to clean drinking water is a given let alone the fact that I’m alive at all.
This sense of gratefulness is like a search lamp, the brilliant beam of which I can shine on my problems to view them in a proper light – a light that reveals how petty it really is for me to bothered by most misfortunes. Unfortunately, the brighter the light the darker the shadow it casts and that sense of appreciation is no different. That dark shadow is complacency.
Complacency is the direct nemesis of ambition. Unfortunately, it seems now so many people who advocate being grateful and not taking what you have for granted also push its poisonous side-effect as if it were an added virtue.
I have always had a serious problem with remembering things.
I forget people’s names after I meet them. I could never memorize any vocabulary in foreign language classes. I forgot to do my homework. I forget everyone’s birthday. Sometimes, I walk into a room and can’t even remember why I went in there in the first place.
It’s kind of a big problem.
Or at least, it was a big problem until I figured out a nice little trick to chisel anything I need to remember into my brain, with only a half-second of effort. Now, I can read a vocab word, hear someone’s name or be presented with an interesting bit of information just once and never forget it.
So what’s the big trick?
It is extremely difficult to achieve your dreams if you are a failure at setting goals.
As someone who always used to really, really hate planning and goal setting, believe me – it makes all the difference. I used to be of the opinion that setting goals just kind of got in the way. They were nice to have as a general reference point, but they weren’t important to the actual process of being productive.
Honestly, me feeling that way was probably largely a result of how terrible I was at setting proper goals. I was really terrible too. Being so awful at it made it even harder to achieve what goals I did set, which just made me more frustrated with goal-setting in general.
Eventually, I learned what I was doing wrong. I wasn’t S.M.A.R.T.
The pushup is one of the most timeless, absolutely essential bodyweight exercises there is. Along with squats and a few others, the pushup in some for or another is the foundation of every bodyweight strength training regimine out there – or at least every worthwhile one. If you want to get in shape, and you don’t have access to free weights, you better be able to do pushups.
So, what if you can’t?
What if you’re too weak or too overweight to do even a single standard pushup? No problem! There are lots of alternatives that you can use to work your way up to it. All of these have been tested and proven both by myself and Caroline. I was the kid that got laughed out of gym class for being too fat to do a single pushup, and Caroline was the yoga nut who weighed next to nothing but had never done a day of strength training in her life. Between the two of us, we know these should work for everybody.
Let’s face it – life is scary. You have to wake up every morning and actually do stuff. There’s a lot of pressure there. You have to go out and slave away at your job everyday for money as the ticking of the clock beckons you gradually closer to the grave. It’s really kind of a bummer.
That’s why I say, don’t even worry about working that hard. The fact is, it’s not going to matter in the end. The best course of action is to just stay in whatever mind-numbing career you find yourself in now. Anything else would be too risky.
To help everyone realize how stupid it really would be to ever take a chance on anything, I’ve compiled this list of five really good reasons you should never quit you day job (or do anything else worthwhile).